At first glance, points two and three contradict each other. They state that emotions and conflicts are caused by arguments based on false interests and the clash of basic values. However, it is important to remember that the most acute conflicts, which often lead to violence, arise when one spouse doubts such fundamental marital value such as fidelity. On the other hand, wounded pride can result in a conflict even during inoffensive talk. Moreover, irrationality (false interests) and emotions considerably increase when alcohol abuse or permanent stress are present.